Dinner Adventure with Lee, Clem and Dawson

With Dawson, Carmen and Drew in Placerville to visit Sugarloaf, Drew got everyone together for dinner at The Independent in Placerville.

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Sharon and I had dinner at this restaurant with Holly and Van last year after we played golf at the Cold Spring Golf and Country Club. For entrees, Sharon had a flank steak special, while I had Ahi Tuna.

At Haggin Oaks Driving Range

With the temperature in the high 90s, Sharon and I met Donna and Kevin at the Haggin Oaks Driving Range. We hit balls using the Toptracer and sat in the shade catching up.

The four of us finished the day with dinner at Wildwood. I had SEARED PRAWN RISOTTO [TENDER ARBORIO RICE, PISTOU, SMOKED APPLE BACON, PARMESAN CHEESE], while Sharon had the WILDWOOD BURGER [WAGYU BEEF, EXTRA SHARP TILLAMOOK CHEDDAR CHEESE, HOUSEMADE DILL PICKLES, LETTUCE, TOMATOES, SPANISH ONION, BURGER SPREAD, BRIOCHE].

My Life 1983

In the running amok of 1991, I lost a lot of pictures from the period 1982 to 1991. I have never been happy with the 1983 picture that I have in the My Life series.

When I was at the Wallens in June, we went through their albums and found this photo. It was taken July 4, 1983. Just after Alison's second miscarriage, she and I spent the long holiday weekend with the Wallens at their cabin in Lake County. I have no recollection of the hat; it seems very odd. I am working on a TRS Model-100 computer.

All of the My Life Photos can be found here.

Your Friends and Neighbors - Season Two

Sharon and I finished watching season two of Your Friends and Neighbors. We finished season one in June of 2025.

Your Friends & Neighbors is an American dark comedy crime drama television series from Jonathan Tropper for Apple TV+. It stars Jon Hamm, Amanda Peet, Olivia Munn, Mark Tallman, Hoon Lee, Lena Hall, and Aimee Carrero. Season two added James Marsden to the cast.

Season two included ten episodes and ran from April 3, 2026 to June 5, 2026. In February 2026, ahead of the second season premiere, the series was renewed for a third season.

In the second season, Andrew "Coop" Cooper (Hamm) slips deeper into a calculated criminal mindset as his neighborhood heist operations grow increasingly volatile. The suburban dynamic shatters with the arrival of Owen Ashe (Marsden), an eccentric, ultra-wealthy billionaire widower who brings immense charm but hides dangerous, unpredictable secrets.

I didn't enjoy season two as much as season one. While I still enjoy watching Jon Hamm, the plot goes in a lot of different directions. The show jumps the shark in the last episode. I am interested to see where the story goes in season three.

Marlene and Phil at the African Dinner Party

African Dinner Party

Before Midnight

Friday night, Sharon and I watched Before Midnight. The sequel to Before Sunrise (1995) and Before Sunset (2004), it is the third and final installment in the Before trilogy. We watched Before Sunrise in March and Before Sunset in February.

Before Midnight is a 2013 romantic drama film directed by Richard Linklater. He co-wrote the screenplay with Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy.

Before Midnight finds Jesse (Ethan Hawke) and Celine (Julie Deply) in their early forties, now a longtime couple with twin daughters, spending a summer vacation in Greece. As their idyllic holiday winds down, a night alone in a hotel room opens the door to deep-seated resentments, challenging the future of their relationship. Through raw, conversational dialogue, the film explores the realities of long-term commitment and how romance evolves past the honeymoon phase.

I give the trilogy of the three films a luke warms thumbs up. The second film, Before Sunset, is on the Big Picture Podcast's list of the Top 25 Movies of the 21st Century.

Before Midnight was nominated for the Academy Award for Best Adapted Screenplay in 2014.

2026 Frame Family Fourth of July

In the late afternoon, we headed to Sharon's brother Tom's house for a Frame Family 4th of July. The group totaled sixteen, including: Sharon and I; Tom; Eric; Kevin, Leah, Lydia and Amelia; Terry and Steve; Will and Eileen; Erin, Cormac and Mave; and Jim. Tim and Kathy were in South Dakota with Ellis, Brun and Foley.

Tom barbecued hot dogs, brats and ribs for dinner. We brought cole slaw.

We finished the night with a selection of fireworks in Tom's driveway. Eric bought a large selection of fireworks. It was probably one of the best home displays that I have seen in years.

We got home in time to see most of the second night of the Rancho Cordova fireworks display.

At Ancil Hoffman Golf Course

Holly, Van, Sharon and I played at Ancil Hoffman Golf Course. We teed off at 8:20 am. Van and I walked, while Holly and Sharon rode.

After a strong round on Thursday and feeling solid on the driving range, I was not happy with how I played. I started strong with a bogey on the first hole, but got more and more inconsistent as the day progressed. Nothing was working: tee shots, chipping or putting. I would hit a good shot and then follow that up with a bad shot. I got a little frustrated on the back nine...

At Ancil Hoffman Golf Couse

Debbie, Jim, Sharon and I played Ancil Hoffman Golf Course on Thursday afternoon. We teed off at 3:00 pm.

I was very happy with how I played. My ball striking was solid. Although I gave up two or three strokes with poor chips on the par threes, my chipping has improved.

Using one mulligan on the third tee, I scored an honest 51. I enjoyed the afternoon!

Lunch with Larkin

Larkin and I met for lunch at the Fair Oaks Brew Pub.

Holly and Van at the African Dinner Party

African Dinner Party

Napa Day Trip

Sharon and I spent the day in Napa. We tasted at Bouchaine Vineyards and picked up our wine club shipments. We have been members there since 2010. Like Donum, the place bears very little resemblance to how it looked on our first visit; it has expanded significantly. They are now digging a wine cave!?!

We had a late lunch at the Sky & Vine Rooftop Bar in Downtown Napa. We split Roasted Brussels Sprouts [goat cheese, creamy herb dressing]. We both had a Seared Yellowfin Tuna Niçoise salad [county line harvest lettuce, hard-boiled egg, potato, tomato, green beans]. The salads were not good...

The Odyssey

My book for June is The Odyssey by Emily Wilson. With Christopher Nolan's film version of the Odyssey coming out in July, I wanted to read the book before we saw the movie.

Published in 2017, Emily Wilson's translation of The Odyssey made history as the first complete English version of the epic poem published by a woman. Wilson chose to match Homer's original line count exactly and translated the text into regular iambic pentameter, resulting in a pacing that feels incredibly modern, swift, and natural to read.

I put together two related posts. First, a one sentence summary of the each of the chapters (called books) is here. Second, a bulleted outline tracing Odysseus' travels is here.

I enjoyed the book immensely. I hadn't read it in high school or college. The structure of the story is very different than I expected. I was generally familar with the struggles that Odysseus faced after he left Troy, but that is really only a part of the story. I also read Circe by Madeline Miller; Odysseus appears in that book. [Note to self], I should read Emily Wilson's translation of the Illiad.

Summary of the books of the Odyssey

The Odyssey translated by Emily Wilson

Odysseus' travels in The Odyssey

• Books 1–4: The Telemachy (The Search for a Father)
  • Book 1: The gods agree it is time for Odysseus to return home, prompting Athena to visit Ithaca and inspire his son, Telemachus, to stand up to the insolent suitors plaguing their estate.
  • Book 2: Telemachus calls an assembly to condemn the suitors, but meeting fierce resistance, he secretly sails away to gather news of his long-lost father.
  • Book 3: Telemachus arrives in Pylos, where the pious King Nestor recounts the fates of other Greek heroes but directs him to Sparta for more information on Odysseus.
  • Book 4: In Sparta, King Menelaus and Queen Helen reveal that Odysseus is alive but trapped on the island of the nymph Calypso, while back in Ithaca, the suitors plot to ambush and murder Telemachus upon his return.
• Books 5–8: Odysseus's Liberation and Arrival in Phaeacia
  • Book 5: Released by Calypso on orders from Hermes, Odysseus builds a raft but is shipwrecked by Poseidon, barely surviving to wash ashore on the island of Scheria.
  • Book 6: Odysseus is discovered by the Phaeacian princess Nausicaa, who gives him clothes and guides him toward her parents' royal palace.
  • Book 7: Wrapped in a protective mist by Athena, Odysseus enters the Phaeacian palace and successfully begs Queen Arete and King Alcinous for safe passage home.
  • Book 8: The Phaeacians host games and feasts in Odysseus's honor, but when a blind bard sings of the Trojan War, the weeping stranger finally prompts King Alcinous to ask for his true identity.
• Books 9–12: The Apologue (Odysseus Tells His Tales)
  • Book 9: Odysseus reveals his name and narrates his early wanderings, including his raid on the Cicones, the drug of the Lotus-Eaters, and his clever but prideful blinding of the Cyclops Polyphemus.
  • Book 10: Odysseus explains how Aeolus's bag of winds backfired, how the cannibalistic Laestrygonians destroyed most of his fleet, and how they spent a year with the witch Circe, who turned his men into pigs.
  • Book 11: Following Circe's directions, Odysseus travels to the Underworld to consult the blind prophet Tiresias, speaking with dead comrades and his own mother.
  • Book 12: Odysseus recounts how he survived the deadly Sirens, navigated the monsters Scylla and Charybdis, and lost his remaining crew after they ate the forbidden cattle of Hyperion, leaving him stranded with Calypso.
• Books 13–16: The Return to Ithaca and Reunion
  • Book 13: The Phaeacians safely deliver Odysseus to a misty Ithaca while he sleeps, but Poseidon punishes the Phaeacians by turning their ship to stone, and Athena disguises Odysseus as an old beggar.
  • Book 14: Odysseus, in disguise, visits his loyal swineherd Eumaeus, who hospitably feeds him and laments the ruin of his master's estate without recognizing him.
  • Book 15: Athena guides Telemachus safely past the suitors' ambush back to Ithaca, where he heads directly to Eumaeus's hut.
  • Book 16: Telemachus arrives at the hut, and once Eumaeus leaves, Odysseus reveals his true identity to his weeping son, and they immediately begin plotting their revenge against the suitors.
• Books 17–20: Entering the Palace in Disguise
  • Book 17: Telemachus returns to the palace while Odysseus arrives later as a beggar, suffering verbal and physical abuse from the suitors, though his old dog, Argos, recognizes him and peacefully dies.
  • Book 18: Odysseus is forced into a fistfight with a beggar named Irus for the suitors' amusement, while Penelope tricks the suitors into giving her expensive gifts.
  • Book 19: Odysseus secretly talks with Penelope, spinning a false identity, while his old nurse Eurycleia recognizes him by a childhood scar on his leg but promises to keep his secret.
  • Book 20: Odysseus spends a sleepless night plotting revenge while the suitors ignore ominous portents sent by the gods and continue their abusive behavior during a feast the next day.
• Books 21–24: Slaughter and Resolution
  • Book 21: Penelope challenges the suitors to string Odysseus's old hunting bow and shoot an arrow through twelve axe-heads, a feat only the disguised Odysseus successfully accomplishes.
  • Book 22: Tearing off his rags, Odysseus kills the suitor Antinous, kicks off a bloody battle in the hall, and slaughters every single suitor and treacherous servant with the help of Telemachus and loyal herdsmen.
  • Book 23: Penelope tests her husband's identity by asking to move their immovable bed—which Odysseus built around a living olive tree—leading to a joyful, emotional reunion.
  • Book 24: Odysseus reunites with his grieving father, Laertes, and when the angry families of the dead suitors come seeking revenge, Athena intervenes to enforce a lasting peace over Ithaca.

Odysseus' travels in The Odyssey

The Odyssey translated by Emily Wilson

Summary of the books of the Odyssey

• Troy: The starting point after the fall of the city.
• Ismarus (Land of the Cicones): Odysseus and his men sack the city but stay too long, losing many men to a counterattack.
• Land of the Lotus-Eaters: A few crew members eat the sweet lotus plant and completely lose their desire to return home.
• Island of the Cyclopes: Trapped in a cave by the one-eyed giant Polyphemus, Odysseus blinds him to escape, triggering the curse of Poseidon.
• Aeolia: Aeolus, the god of wind, gifts Odysseus a bag of winds. The crew opens it out of greed right before reaching home, blowing them off course.
• Telepylos (Land of the Laestrygonians): Cannibalistic giants destroy 11 of Odysseus's 12 ships by hurling massive boulders.
• Aeaea (Circe's Island): The witch goddess Circe turns the crew into pigs. Odysseus resists her magic with help from Hermes and stays for a year.
• The Underworld (Kingdom of the Dead): Odysseus travels to the realm of Hades to seek the prophecy of the blind seer Tiresias.
• The Sirens: Odysseus plugs his crew's ears with beeswax and has himself tied to the mast so he can safely listen to their enchanting, deadly song.
• Scylla and Charybdis: The ship must navigate a narrow strait between Scylla (a six-headed monster who eats six sailors) and Charybdis (a deadly whirlpool).
• Thrinacia (Island of Helios): Despite warnings, the starving crew slaughters the sacred cattle of the sun god Helios. Zeus punishes them with a storm that destroys the last ship, leaving only Odysseus alive.
• Ogygia (Calypso's Island): Odysseus washes ashore and is held captive for seven years by the nymph Calypso, who offers him immortality if he stays.
• Scheria (Island of the Phaeacians): After escaping Calypso on a raft, Odysseus is shipwrecked here. The hospitable Phaeacians listen to his story and finally provide him with a ship home.
• Ithaca: Odysseus arrives home disguised as a beggar, defeats the suitors, and reclaims his kingdom.

Michael

Sunday night, Sharon and I watched Michael.

Michael is a biographical film about Michael Jackson directed by Antoine Fuqua and written by John Logan. Michael's son, Prince, was an executive producer and kept track of the film's development.

Jackson is portrayed by his nephew Jaafar Jackson and as a child by Juliano Valdi, both in their film debuts. The supporting cast includes Nia Long, KeiLyn Durrel Jones, Laura Harrier, Jessica Sula, Mike Myers, Miles Teller, and Colman Domingo.

The film follows the early life of American singer Michael Jackson, covering his childhood with the Jackson 5 in the 1960s to the Bad World Tour in the late 1980s. It explores his complex, abusive relationship with his father, Joe. The film details how Michael took creative control of his solo career to engineer record-breaking albums like Off the Wall and Thriller.

After it was over, Sharon said that she wished we had seen it in the theater. Although it received generally negative reviews from critics, we both thought that the movie was good. I was surprised by the protrayal of Michael Jackson's father. I didn't realize that there were allegations of abuse. Michael Jackson and several of his siblings later opened up about the severe emotional and physical abuse they suffered from their father during rehearsals. There is some wild footage of Michael having a giraffe, a llama and a chimpanzee as pets. Although earlier versions of the script included the child sexual abuse accusations against Michael, they were cut from the film. Apparently, they are planning a sequel.

Babysitting Adventure with Lee and Clem

Saturday evening, Sharon and I babysat Lee and Clem while Morgan and Daniel went out to dinner. We took them to dinner at Paco's Taquería. We had great time!

El Dorado Trail Hike

On the way to babysit Lee and Clem, we planned to hike along the El Dorado Trail. After some running amok, they did a short hike on starting from the Community Center in El Doardo. We hiked a little over two miles in about 45 minutes. We might try to bring our bikes back here sometime...

Oura Ring Six Month Anniversary Data

For Christmas in 2022, Sharon gave me an OURA ring. It is a smart ring used to track sleep and physical activity.

Over the last three and a half years, my superpowers have always been training volume and the timing of my sleep cycle [June 2023, December 2023, June 2024, December 2024, June 2025, December 2025]. My kryptonite has switched back and forth between recovery index and restfulness.

There isn't always a My Climber category. I was happy to see that my HRV has improved from the last six months.

At Ancil Hoffman Golf Course

Debbie, Jim, Sharon and I played Ancil Hoffman on Thursday afternoon. We teed off at 3 pm. Debbie and Sharon rode, while Jim and I walked.

I carded a very liberally scored 51. I used a couple of mulligans and had another very odd gallery loss. My chipping continues to improve. On the last two holes, I hit the ball hard, but left; I have got to figure this out. I also need to continue to work on my concentration. I was more inconsistent than Wednesday. Nevertheless, I enjoyed the afternoon.

The four of us finished the day on the patio of the Main Event Bar & Grill. I really like this spot. I feel like the view is as nice as almost any country club.

At William Land Golf Course

Donna, Kevin and I played golf at William Land Golf Course. We teed off at 10:36 am.

After going to the Ancil Hoffman driving range on Monday and the Haggin Oaks driving range on Tuesday, I was happy with how I played. Obviously, this is an easier courses than Whitney Oaks...

My chipping was better. Although I pulled a number of shots left and lost my concentration on the par five eighth hole, I was making good contact.

I ended up with four bogies, four double bogies and one triple bogey on the par five eighth. With one mulligan and a very odd gallery loss, I ended up with an honestly scored 49. I really enjoyed the round. Last time I played this course in February, I had a 58 and was very discouraged.

Sharon had driven Jack back to San Francisco in the morning. She met the three of us for lunch at Meet & Eat. I had a spicy shrimp noddle salad, while Sharon had a famous fish salad.

Larkin - Over the Years

Happy Birthday, Larkin!

The Nice Guys

Saturday night, Jack, Sharon and I watched The Nice Guys. Jack suggested the movie. He had heard a Rewatchable's Podcast about the movie recently.

The movie is a 2016 American neo-noir buddy action comedy film directed by Shane Black. He co-wrote the screenplay with Anthony Bagarozzi. It stars Russell Crowe and Ryan Gosling in the title roles. Angourie Rice, Matt Bomer, Margaret Qualley, Keith David, and Kim Basinger appear in supporting roles.

Set in a hazy, neon-soaked 1977 Los Angeles, the story pairs a bumbling, down-on-his-luck private investigator (Gosling) with a cynical hired enforcer (Crowe). The mismatched duo reluctantly teams up to investigate the mysterious disappearance of a young woman and the seemingly unrelated death of a porn star. They stumble through a web of corporate greed and automotive industry corruption.

The film was milding entertaining. I give it a luke-warm thumbs up.

Father's Day 2026

A lazy Father's Day including:

• Sharon and I took Tiber for a neighborhood walk;
• a quiche from Whole Foods for breakfast on the deck with Jack and Sharon;
• a twenty minute Peloton core workout;
• a five mile Peloton just run on the treadmill watching the leaders of the US Open start their round;
• Father's Day presents: a ROYBI pole saw from Sharon;
• Facetimed with Dawson, Carmen and Drew;
• watched Wyndham Clark win the 126th U.S. Open at Shinnecock Hills Golf Club by two strokes;
• hors d'oeuvres and Hugo 75 cocktails on the deck;
• Sharon made a great Caroline Chambers' dinner of spare ribs, cole shaw and potatoes; and,
• the three of us finished the day watching the 2006 Christoper Nolan movie The Prestige.

Jack is back plus The Nice Guys

Jack caught a 10:08 train from Emeryville to Sacramento. Sharon picked him up at the Amtrak station in downtown Sacramento at 12:05 pm. He is here for the next few days.

The three of us finished the day watching The Nice Guys.