Train Dreams

Friday night, Sharon and I watched Train Dreams on Netflix. We are working on filling out our Oscar's dance card. Train Dreams is nominated for Best Picture and Best Adapted Screen Play.

Train Dreams is a period drama film directed by Clint Bentley. He co-wrote the screenplay with Greg Kwedar,. It is based on the 2011 novella by Denis Johnson.

The film stars Joel Edgerton, Felicity Jones (The Theory of Everything, The Brutalist) , Nathaniel Arcand, Clifton Collins Jr., John Diehl, Paul Schneider, Kerry Condon (The Banshees of Inisherin, Three Billboards Outside Ebbing, Missouri), F1), and William H. Macy. It is narrated by Will Patton.

The film recounts the 80 years of the life of Robert Grainier around Bonners Ferry, Idaho. After a sudden, devastating tragedy leaves him alone in the wilderness, Grainier lives a life of profound solitude as he experiences the rugged beauty and shifting myths of a vanishing frontier.

Sharon and I were expecting a depressing movie. It really wasn't. At an hour and forty-five minutes, it is a tight well-told story. With so many movies stretching to 2 1/2 to 3 hours, it was a refreshing change. I told Sharon when it was over that I enjoyed it more than the more widely lauded Sentimental Value. It is not going to win best picture, but I enjoyed it more than I expected.

Super Bowl LX

Sharon and I did a pre-Super Bowl hike around Ancil Hoffman Park and through Effie Yeaw Nature Center. We explored an area in Effie Yeaw along the river that we haven't hiked before. We covered four miles in an hour and forty miles. We feel blessed to have this resource outside our back door.

In the late afternoon, we went to a Super Bowl Party at our neighbors Greg and Michele's house. This is the third straight year that we have gone to their house for the Super Bowl. The group included Greg and Michele, Jim and Debi, Ed and Mary Lou, Brad, Heidi and Clark, Joan and Brett? and Sharon and I.

The Seattle Seahawks beat the New England Patriots by the score of 29 to 13. The Seattle defense sacked Drake Maye six times. Rolling up 135 yards on 27 carries against New England, Kenneth Walker was named Super Bowl MVP.

Dinner with Holly and Van

Saturday night, Sharon and I met Holly and Van for dinner at Chu Mai. We split Duck Liver Mousse [shaoxing gelee, shaved fennel, perilla, rau ram, cashews, served with chinese donut], Lobster & Shrimp "Cheung Fun" [rice noodle sheets, pickled shiitake mushrooms, garlic butter sauce, nuoc cham], Charred Napa Cabbage [vietnamese furikake, radish, perilla, garlic oyster sauce], Fried Rice with Seasonal Vegetables [with fried laughing duck farms duck egg and tofu] and special Taiwanese Fried Chicken.

Celebrating Sharon's birthday, we had Mochi Cornbread Fruit Cobbler for desert.

The food was very good.

Amelia's Baptism

Saturday afternoon, Sharon and I went to Amelia's baptism at St. Ignatius Church. Sharon is Amelia's godmother, while Sharon's brother Tim is her godfather. There was one other family having their twin boys baptized at the same time. Our group included Tom, Eric, Tim, Terry and Steve, Kevin and Leah, Lydia, Sharon and I and several friends of Kevin, Leah and Amelia.

Sharon and I went to Lydia's christening in November of 2015.

Afterwards, everyone went back to Kevin and Leah's house. They have a tradition of smoking cigars after the baptism. Passing out cheap gas station cigars, I skipped the tradition. I had a bad experience ten years ago; the cigar didn't agree with me...

Cronan Ranch Hike

Sharon and Jeana spent the day hiking at Cronan Ranch.

Donna - Over the Years

Happy Birthday, Donna!

2026 Kings versus Grizzlies

Larkin and I met Snipes and Tomasin at the Yard House for dinner (Ahi Poke). Afterwards the four of us went to the Sacramento Kings versus Memphis Grizzlies NBA basketball game. I got four tickets from Drew and Kyle: Section 218, Seats A19 to A22.

It was a tight, back-and-forth contest. Neither side could truly pull away. Both the Sacramento Kings and the Memphis Grizzlies reached an 8-point advantage at different stages of the game.

Grizzlies rookie Cam Spencer (Snipes was calling him Gavin McBuckets) was the hero late in the fourth. He hit a deep 28-foot three-pointer with 18 seconds left to push a one-point lead back up to four and seal the game. The Kings lost the game by the score of 129 to 125.

Doomantas Sabonis was the high scorer for the Kings. He had 24 points on 10 for 18 from the field and 4 for 4 from the free throw line. Sabonis added 15 rebounds. He played very little in the second half; he scored 20 points in the first half.

Ty Jerome was the high scorer for the Grizzlies. Playing only 21 minutes, he scored 28 points on 10 for 14 from the field, 3 for 4 from three and 5 for 6 from the free throw line.

The loss was the Kings' 10th straight defeat. The Kings are currently sitting at 12-40, which officially marks the worst record through 52 games in the Sacramento era (since 1985). The Grizzlies won their second in a row despite playing without several key players due to recent trades and injuries.

It is clear to me that the Kings are just tanking at this point. They played their two youngest players--Carter and Clifford--down the stretch. Larkin noted that Christy isn't getting as animated as he used to...

The only good news is that the Kings have all of their own first round draft picks over the next five years!

Year	First-Round Picks	Second-Round Picks
2026	Sacramento's own pick	Sacramento's own pick Charlotte's pick (via SAS)
2027	Sacramento's own pick San Antonio's pick (Unprotected)	Sacramento's own pick Charlotte's pick (via SAS)
2028	Sacramento's own pick	None (To Portland via CHI/MEM)
2029	Sacramento's own pick	None (To Houston via WAS)
2030	Sacramento's own pick	None (To San Antonio via IND)

The Kings have 2 wins and 3 losses in games that I have seen in the 2025-2026 season.. I am going to try and take Lee to a game in March.

Chipping Lesson

Wednesday morning, Sharon and I took a chipping lesson from Jimmy, the pro at Ancil Hoffman.

Volvo XC60 T8 - Day #2,653

Monday afternoon, I took the Volvo in for the 60,000 mile servicing. It has 61,900 miles on the odometer.

It continues to amaze me how little I have been driving. I have averaged 8,515 miles a year on the car since I bought it in October of 2018. The year that I was working in Sonora for Adventist Health I drove almost 40,000 miles...

1954 Football Team Photo - Dick Heringer at UC Davis

I have a football picture of my dad in the "My Life" series. Although it is tagged as 1954, given that he is wearing a different number than this picture, I suspect that the My Life picture is from 1953.

California Aggie, Volume 53, Number 1, 16 September 1954

TOP ROW: Coach Will Lotter, Wayne Sawyer, Bob Maulhardt, Mike Noviss, Tom Parker, Doug Cagle, Tom Pain, Rav Londen, Dave Murry, Dave Dixon, Mike Hill, Duane Damron, Don Donsing, Chuck Synold, Bill Bear, Craig James, Howard Coker, Jim McGinniz, Coach Bill Dutton. MIDDLE ROW: Francis Luskufa, Kermit Tarke, Paul Goiter, Larry Timko, Jerry Myers, Jim eynolds, Ted Johnson, Richard Heringer (#47), Bob Warren, Bill Lleweljyn, Don Turner. BOTTOM ROW: Ken Crandall, Larry Sevison, John Lewis, Mell Voss, Chuck Messick, Walt Titcomb, Lloyd Harris, Steve Bartok, Bob Jones, Paul Clary.

Dick Heringer and Joyce Abbott at UC Davis

Andor - Season One

Sharon and I finished watching season one of Andor. I think that it has taken us six months to watch all twelve episodes. I am pretty sure that we started watching the series last summer before we went to Africa.

Star Wars: Andor is a series created by Tony Gilroy for the streaming service Disney+. It is part of the Star Wars franchise and a prequel to the anthology film Rogue One: A Star Wars Story. Sharon, Jack and I watched Rogue One on Chistmas Day of 2016. Rogue One is a prequel to the original 1977 Star Wars film.

Diego Luna reprises his role as Cassian Andor from Rogue One. The series also stars Kyle Soller, Adria Arjona, Stellan Skarsgård [Sentimental Value], Fiona Shaw, Genevieve O'Reilly, Denise Gough, Faye Marsay, Varada Sethu, Elizabeth Dulau, Ben Mendelsohn, Benjamin Bratt, and Alan Tudyk.

Andor received twenty-two nominations for Primetime Emmy Awards. It won five for its second season in 2025, including Outstanding Writing for a Drama Series for the second season's ninth episode: "Welcome to the Rebellion".

I am looking forward to watching season two and then rewatching Rogue One. Hopefully, we can work our way through season two in less than six months.

2025 Pedometer ++

I walked 6.2 million steps with Pedometer++ in 2025. The last three months of the year were difficult.

Oura Ring Six Month Anniversary Data

For Christmas in 2022, Sharon gave me an OURA ring. It is a smart ring used to track sleep and physical activity.

Over the last three years, my superpowers have always been training volume and the timing of my sleep cycle [June 2023, December 2023, June 2024, December 2024, June 2025]. My kryptonite has switched back and forth between recovery index and restfulness.

Debbie and Sharon

Like last year, Debbie took Sharon to lunch to celebrate her birthday. They went to Fabian's. We had dinner there with the Larkins and the Gainsleys in December.

Sharon and Tom's 2026 San Francisco Adventure - Day #3

After breakfast at the lodge, Sharon and Tom hiked through the Presidio to the Golden Gate Bridge. Although they didn't have time to explore, Sharon noted that there is a visitors center and a gift shop.

Packing up the room and checking out, they headed to Sausalito for lunch. They ate at Scoma's [crab louie].

After lunch, they shopped along Bridgeway Street. Sharon and Tom both ended up buying a couple of small original paintings at the Meili Original Art Gallery.

They rolled back to Carmichael just after 5:30 pm.

At William Land Park Golf Course

Teeing off at 10:36, Larkin and I played golf at the William Land Golf Course with the Gainsleys. I had never played this course and suggested it to the group. We all walked the course.

I was pretty discouraged when we finished the round. I felt good hitting balls at Haggin Oaks on Tuesday. Hitting seven or eight shots with every club, the Toptracer groupings were solid. I am having trouble carrying that over to the course.

Going back and looking at the tracked shot in Golfshot Pro, I actually started making pretty consistent contact beginning on the third hole. My two nemeses are continuing to plague me. First, I struggling on the first couple of holes every round and then I settle down. Sharon and I talked about this on the way back from Palm Desert. I don't feel nervous; it just takes me a couple of holes to get on track. Second, my chipping continues to be a huge problem...

On the fourth hole, I was in a bunker pin high just off the green. It took me three shots to get out of the bunker and then I three putted the hole. On the fifth hole, I was on the lip of the bunker and it took me four chips to get the ball on the green.

I was actually pleased with how I played the last four holes. I had a long par putt on the ninth hole. I ended up with an honestly scored 58. I played the round with the same ball...

I really enjoy walking a course. It helps keep me in a more positive frame of mind.

The four of us had lunch at Meet & Eat [spicy turkey burger]. Sharon and I ate there in 2022 with the Gainsley after a round at Bing Maloney.

Sharon and Tom's 2026 San Francisco Adventure - Day #2

This is the first major exhibition dedicated to the artistic exchange between French Impressionists Édouard Manet (1832–1883) and Berthe Morisot (1841–1895). Manet was the era’s great pioneer of modern painting, and Morisot, the only woman to exhibit under her own name in the original Impressionist group. Unfolding over a period of 15 years (1868–1883), this exhibition traces the evolution of a friendship between two groundbreaking artists. The story of their relationship has often been told through Manet’s early portraits of Morisot, with Morisot’s own work treated as an offshoot of Manet’s. Recent scholarship reveals that, by the final years of his life, Manet increasingly followed Morisot’s example — her choice of subjects and colors, and even her rapid, fluttering brushstrokes. Rich in new research, the exhibition recasts this celebrated artistic friendship — and, by extension, the story of modern art — in a fresh light.

Spending the night at the Lodge at the Presidio, Sharon and Tom had breakfast at the hotel.

Their plan for the morning was the Manet and Morisot exhibition at the de Young Legion of Honor. They walked through the exhibit and then did a docent led tour. They had lunch at the museum.

Afterwards, they hiked along the Coastal trail from the Legion of Honor to the Surto Baths and back. Sharon and I covered that section when we did the firt part of the Crosstown trail.

Taking a Waymo to the restaurant, they finished the day with dinner at Capra. Jack joined them. This restaurant is affliated with Ettan in Palo Alto where we have had dinner twice. Sharon said that she thought that the food was better at Ettan.

Dinner Adventure with Clem and Lee

I traveled to Morgan and Daniel's house in Pollack Pines for dinner.

Sharon and Tom's 2026 San Francisco Adventure - Day #1

For the fourth year in a row [October 20, February 23, April 23, 24, 25], Sharon and her brother Tom are off to San Francisco. They rolled from Carmichael just before 1 pm.

They are spending two nights at the Lodge at the Presidio. Sharon and I have stayed there twice [21 and 25].

They took a Waymo to the Holbrook House for a cocktail. From there, they took an Uber to RT Bistro for dinner. Sharon had trout and Tom had Duck. Waymo back to the hotel

The Morning Show - Season Four

Sharon and I finished watching season four of The Morning Show. We watched season one in November of 2023. While we watched season two and three in 2024, I never wrote up any notes about those seasons.

The series is inspired by Brian Stelter's 2013 book Top of the Morning. The show examines the characters and culture behind a network broadcast morning news program.

The series stars Jennifer Aniston, Reese Witherspoon, and Billy Crudup. Season four introduces Marion Cotillard as the antagonist.

The series has received numerous accolades, including 27 Primetime Emmy Award nominations, ten Screen Actors Guild Award nominations and ten Golden Globe Award nominations. Aniston won the Screen Actors Guild Award for Outstanding Performance by a Female Actor in a Drama Series in 2020. Crudup won the Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Drama Series in 2020 and 2024.

Although I thought that the ending of season four was good, I am very lukewarm on the season. There are too many subplots; This includes: AI; the Olympics; an athlete who used steroids; an Irain athlete that defects; a host that is detained in Belarus; a massive corporate cover-up involving the EPA and a chemical poisoning scandal; climate change protests; and a Pat McAfee character. The season is overstuffed. It is trying to tackle too many topics at once. Additionally, many of the storylines seem to be dead ends; they don't contribute to the story.

Jack back to the City

Up early, I took Jack to the Amtrak station in downtown Sacramento. He caught a 7:20 am train back to San Francisco. It was nice to have him here for a couple of days. His presence was the best present that he could have gotten Sharon for her birthday.

The Rip

Saturday afternoon, Jack, Sharon and I watched The Rip on Netflix.

The Rip is an action thriller film written and directed by Joe Carnahan. He developed the story with Michael McGrale. The film stars Matt Damon and Ben Affleck. Steven Yeun [Minari], Teyana Taylor [One Battle After Another], Sasha Calle, Catalina Sandino Moreno, Scott Adkins, and Kyle Chandler appear in supporting roles.

The film is inspired by the true story of Miami-Dade County Sheriff Chris Casiano. The film tells the story of a group of police officers within the narcotics unit of the Miami-Dade Police Department who, during a raid on a hidden cash operation, find their trust broken down as team members suspect each other of trying to steal a large sum of cash.

Jack commented that it would have been nice to see the movie in the theater. The movie is very watchable. My only comment is that the action scenes at the end are more than a little drawn out...

Celebrating Sharon's Birthday

Jack spending the weekend with us was the best birthday present that Sharon could have gotten...

In the late morning, Jack, Sharon and I hiked in Ancil Hoffman Park. We did a loop through the Effie Yeaw Nature Center and around the golf course. We covered 3.6 miles in just over an hour and a half. I really appreciate having the park outside our back door.
We did presents before we went to dinner. I gave Sharon a mocktail book and a pair of soundcore Sport X20 earbuds.


Jack, Sharon and I had dinner at Ella Dining Room and Bar. We started with DEVILED FARM EGGS [Shrimp Salad, Egg Mimosa]. Sharon and Jack split an Apple & Endive Salad [Blue Cheese, Candied Pecan, Dried Cherries, Honey Yogurt Dressing, Apple Butter], while I had a chesnut soup. For entrees, Sharon and Jack shared a 48 OZ TOMAHAWK RIBEYE [Crispy Potatoes, Red Wine Jus] with CRISPY BRUSSELS SPROUTS [Golden Raisin Agrodolce, Pumpkin Seeds, Sesame Seeds]! I had TRUFFLE SPAGHETTI [Truffle Cream, Hen of the Woods Mushrooms, Fresh Shaved Périgord Truffles]. The three of us split STICKY TOFFEE PUDDING [Dates, Spiced Pecans, Roasted Banana Ice Cream] for desert.

We finished the night watching the third period of the San Jose Sharks versus New York Rangers NHL hockey game. The Sharks beat the Rangers by the score of 3 to 1. I don't really follow hockey. j Jack raved about Macklin Celebrini.

Adventures with Dawson

Sharon and I drove to Orinda and picked Jack up at the BART station. From there, we headed to Drew and Carmen's house. We had a wonderful visit. It is amazing to see the blossoming of Dawson in the last two weeks. We had a nice dinner of Thai food.

On the way to Orinda, we ended up in a giant traffic mess on 24. It took us over three hours to get to Drew and Carmen's house. After dinner, it was an easy hour and forty minute ride home...

2026 Oscar Nominations

Best Picture
    ✔ Bugonia
    ✔ F1
    ✔ Frankenstein
    ✔ Hamnet
    ✔ Marty Supreme
    ✔ One Battle After Another
    The Secret Agent
    ✔ Sentimental Value
    ✔ Sinners
    ✔ Train Dreams


Best Actress
    ✔ Jessie Buckley, Hamnet
    Rose Byrne, If I Had Legs I’d Kick You
    Kate Hudson, Song Sung Blue
    ✔ Renate Reinsve, Sentimental Value
    ✔ Emma Stone, Bugonia


Best Actor
    ✔ Timothée Chalamet, Marty Supreme
    ✔ Leonardo DiCaprio, One Battle After Another
    Ethan Hawke, Blue Moon
    ✔ Michael B. Jordan, Sinners
    Wagner Moura, The Secret Agent


Best Supporting Actress
    ✔ Elle Fanning, Sentimental Value
    ✔ Inga Ibsdotter Lilleaas, Sentimental Value
    Amy Madigan, Weapons
    ✔ Wunmi Mosaku, Sinners
    ✔ Teyana Taylor, One Battle After Another


Best Supporting Actor
    ✔ Benicio Del Toro, One Battle After Another
    ✔ Jacob Elordi, Frankenstein
    ✔ Delroy Lindo, Sinners
    ✔ Sean Penn, One Battle After Another
    ✔ Stellan Skarsgard, Sentimental Value


Best Director
    ✔ Chloé Zhao, Hamnet
    ✔ Josh Safdie, Marty Supreme
    ✔ Paul Thomas Anderson, One Battle After Another
    ✔ Joachim Trier, Sentimental Value
    ✔ Ryan Coogler, Sinners


Best Adapted Screenplay
    ✔ Bugonia
    ✔ Frankenstein
    ✔ Hamnet
    ✔ One Battle After Another
    ✔ Train Dreams



Best Original Screenplay
    Blue Moon
    It Was Just an Accident
    ✔ Marty Supreme
    ✔ Sentimental Value
    ✔ Sinners


Best International Feature Film
    The Secret Agent
    It Was Just an Accident
    ✔ Sentimental Value
    Sirât
    The Voice of Hind Rajab


Previous Year's Oscar Nominations

Mayfly 2025

Sea Ranch • immunotherapy • Wyoming Roadtrip • South Africa, Zimbabwe & Zambia • fourth surgery • hospitalized four nights • Carmen's Pregancy • Lee • six weeks radiation therapy • Clem • Feeling Misshapen

You can find my previous Mayfly summaries here!

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Lunch with Nooter and Snipes

With Nooter staying a few days on the left coast after Julie's funeral, he and I met Snipes for lunch at Polanco Cantina in DOCO. Suffering from the flu, Snipes and Joy weren't able to make it to the funeral.

Afterwards, Nooter headed to our house and spent the night. He, Sharon and I had a leisurely evening having dinner and visting.

[Note to self], I need to get to the east coast to play some golf with Nooter. As I say in the draft of my book, of my oldest friends, I have always said that I enjoyed Nooter’s company intellectually.