In the afternoon, Sharon and I headed to Orinda. We spent some time visiting with Carmen, Drew and Jack at Drew and Carmen's house. Jack had taken BART over after work.
The five of us had an early dinner at the Social Bird Kitchen and Bar in Lafayette. Sharon and I ate there once before with Donna and Kevin in 2023 when we were housesitting for Drew and Carmen while they were on their honeymoon.
For starters, the five of us split oysters, marinated olives, DUROC PORK & VEAL MEATBALLS [Calabrian chile tomato sauce, parmesan, grilled bread] and AVOCADO BRUSCHETTA [Pickled sweet peppers, crispy red onions, sea salt].
For entrees, I had SLOW BRAISED BONELESS BEEF SHORT RIB [Organic polenta, mushroom ragout, green beans, burgundy sauce]. Jack and Drew had SNAKE RIVER FARMS WAGYU BURGER [Challah roll, lettuce, tomato, onion, housemade pickles & hand cut fries]. Carmen had LOCAL DIXON MEDITERRANEAN LAMB SLIDERS [Challah rolls, feta, cucumber yogurt sauce, tomato, arugula, hand cut fries]. Sharon had a halibut fish special. While my entree was good, Sharon said that her fish was dry and lifeless...
We finished the dinner with a couple of desserts: a blueberry-peach crumble tart and a bread pudding.
Sharon and I ended home from the restaurant. We were back in Carmichael a little after 8:30 pm.
It was really nice to spend some time with Carmen, Drew and Jack.
Wednesday, July 16, 2025
Tuesday, July 15, 2025
Golftec
With Sharon off hiking with Jeana and Holly at Hidden Falls, I had a Golftec lesson on Tuesday morning. We focused on having me warm up with a very staggered stance (right foot back) to get my right hip moving and to get my swing inside out. I am still swinging too much with my shoulders and not enough with my hips. I ended up htting for almost half an hour in the booth after my lesson was over.
Monday, July 14, 2025
Mustang of the Week - Heringer Harries Humboldt - Dick Heringer at UC Davis
California Aggie, Volume 52, Number 4, 8 October 1953
MUSTANG OF THE WEEK - Heringer Harries Humboldt
Dick Heringer, rugged right guard of the Cal Aggie squad, was selected as Player of the Week in the game against Humboldt State last Saturday night.
"He was all over the field,” one observer commented, referring to his many key tackles and general all around defensive work. Dick showed the stamina and skill to play "both ways” for nearly the entire game.
Coming from Clarksburg two years ago, where he established himself as a high school grid star, Dick is now showing evidence of a great potential. He has earned the starting spot at guard.
Dick is 5’11”, weighs 195 pounds, and displays a love for the rough going of line play. Dick is a junior in the College of Agriculture, majoring in Agronomy. He is affiliated with the Calpha Fraternity.
Dick Heringer, rugged right guard of the Cal Aggie squad, was selected as Player of the Week in the game against Humboldt State last Saturday night.
"He was all over the field,” one observer commented, referring to his many key tackles and general all around defensive work. Dick showed the stamina and skill to play "both ways” for nearly the entire game.
Coming from Clarksburg two years ago, where he established himself as a high school grid star, Dick is now showing evidence of a great potential. He has earned the starting spot at guard.
Dick is 5’11”, weighs 195 pounds, and displays a love for the rough going of line play. Dick is a junior in the College of Agriculture, majoring in Agronomy. He is affiliated with the Calpha Fraternity.

Dick Heringer and Joyce Abbott at UC Davis
Sunday, July 13, 2025
Apple Watch Series 10
While I was working to upgrade my iPhone, Sharon upgraded her Apple watch from a Series 7 to a Series 10. After she gave me my first Apple Watch for Father's Day in 2016, I gave her an Apple Watch for Mother's Day in 2017.
We ran into problems getting her watch set up. It kept asking for a password for an email address that she hasn't used in years. I had an epiphany at lunch on Saturday and we were able to finally it it set up.
We ran into problems getting her watch set up. It kept asking for a password for an email address that she hasn't used in years. I had an epiphany at lunch on Saturday and we were able to finally it it set up.
Saturday, July 12, 2025
iPhone 16 Pro
I have been carrying an iPhone 14 Pro since September of 2022. This is the longest that I have used that same phone since I left the Farm Credit Banks in July of 1998, 27 years ago. Like several of the my other iPhones, the Lightning connector stopped working long ago. The battery is failing. It has gotten to point where I have to recharge it a couple of times a day. With the trip to South Africa looming, I felt like it was time to replace it.
I ordered an iPhone 16 Pro online on Saturday morning. After doing some shopping at REI for safari clothes, we popped into the Apple store at the Galleria Mall to pick it up. Doing an iPhone to iPhone transfter on Saturday night, I was surprised how long it took to transfer everything. It took several hours. I was glad that I wasn't in a hurry like I was when I upgraded in September of 2022!
I ordered an iPhone 16 Pro online on Saturday morning. After doing some shopping at REI for safari clothes, we popped into the Apple store at the Galleria Mall to pick it up. Doing an iPhone to iPhone transfter on Saturday night, I was surprised how long it took to transfer everything. It took several hours. I was glad that I wasn't in a hurry like I was when I upgraded in September of 2022!
Friday, July 11, 2025
Africa Travelers Dinner
We had Kevin, Donna and Sharon's brother Tom for dinner. God willing, the five of us are going to South Africa, Zimbabwe and Zambia in September. The purpose of the dinner was two fold: a chance for Donna and Kevin to meet Tom, and; to do some trip planning.
Donna and Kevin came early. With the temperature over 102, the four of us spent some time in the pool.
Before dinner, we served a gin and tonic with the Harris gin that Tom and I discovered on the Isle of Skye. We had barbecued chicken, asparagus and a farro salad.
Donna and Kevin came early. With the temperature over 102, the four of us spent some time in the pool.
Before dinner, we served a gin and tonic with the Harris gin that Tom and I discovered on the Isle of Skye. We had barbecued chicken, asparagus and a farro salad.
Thursday, July 10, 2025
Jurassic World Rebirth

After dinner, the four of us met Sharon's brother Tim and her nephew Kevin at the Cinemark Century Arden 14 and XD. The six of us saw Jurassic World Rebirth.
Jurassic World Rebirth is a science fiction action thriller film directed by Gareth Edwards and written by David Koepp. A standalone sequel to Jurassic World Dominion (2022), it is the fourth Jurassic World film and the seventh installment overall in the Jurassic Park franchise.
The film stars Scarlett Johansson, Mahershala Ali (Green Book, Moonlight) , Jonathan Bailey (Wicked Part One), Rupert Friend, Manuel Garcia-Rulfo, and Ed Skrein.
In the movie, a pharmaceutical company recruits a team of experts to an abandoned, dinosaur-infested island to extract vital biomaterial for a new heart disease cure. Their mission becomes a struggle for survival when they encounter dangerous, often mutated, dinosaurs and must contend with a separate civilian family whose boating trip went awry. The group faces off against various prehistoric creatures, including a formidable "Distortus rex," as they attempt to escape the deadly island with the crucial samples.
I saw the first Jurassic Park movie during the summer of 1993. While we were at Lake Almanor, Devan dragged everyone to Susanville to see the movie. I don't think that I have seen any of the subsequent films. While Jurassic World Bebirth was entertaining, both Sharon and I thought it was mediocre. We enjoyed Mission: Impossible – The Final Reckoning more. Seeing this film doesn't motivate me to see any of the five previous films in the franchise that I missed.
Wednesday, July 09, 2025
The New Y0rk Times: 100 Best Movies of the 21st Century
100 BEST MOVIES OF THE 21st CENTURY
[work in progress to update the list with the movies that we have seen...]
[work in progress to update the list with the movies that we have seen...]
- ✔ Parasite (Bong Joon Ho)
- Mulholland Drive (David Lynch)
- There Will Be Blood (Paul Thomas Anderson)
- In the Mood For Love (Wong Kar Wai)
- ✔ Moonlight (Barry Jenkins)
- No Country For Old Men (Joel & Ethan Coen)
- Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (Michel Gondry)
- ✔ Get Out (Jordan Peele)
- Spirited Away (Hayao Miyazaki)
- ✔ The Social Network (David Fincher)
- ✔ Mad Max: Fury Road (George Miller)
- ✔ The Zone of Interest (Jonathan Glazer)
- Children of Men (Alfonso Cuaron)
- Inglourious Basterds (Quentin Tarantino)
- City of God (Fernando Meirelles)
- Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon (Ang Lee)
- Brokeback Mountain (Ang Lee)
- Y Tu Mama Tambien (Alfonso Cuaron)
- Zodiac (David Fincher)
- The Wolf of Wall Street (Martin Scorsese)
- The Royal Tenenbaums (Wes Anderson)
- The Grand Budapest Hotel (Wes Anderson)
- Boyhood (Richard Linklater)
- Her (Spike Jonze)
- Phantom Thread (Paul Thomas Anderson)
- Anatomy of a Fall (Justine Triet)
- Adaptation (Spike Jonze)
- The Dark Knight (Christopher Nolan)
- Arrival (Denis Villeneuve)
- Lost in Translation (Sofia Coppola)
- The Departed (Martin Scorsese)
- Bridesmaids (Paul Feig)
- A Separation (Asghar Farhadi)
- WALL-E Andrew Stanton)
- A Prophet (Jacques Audiard)
- A Serious Man (Joel & Ethan Coen)
- Call Me By Your Name (Luca Guadagnino)
- Portrait of A Lady on Fire (Celine Sciamma)
- Lady Bird (Greta Gerwig)
- Yi Yi (Edward Yang)
- Amelie (Jean-Pierre Jeunet)
- The Master (Paul Thomas Anderson)
- Oldboy (Park Chan-wook)
- Once Upon A Time in Hollywood (Quentin Tarantino)
- Moneyball (Bennett Miller)
- ROMA (Alfonso Cuaron)
- Almost Famous (Cameron Crowe)
- The Lives of Others (Florian Henckel Von Donnersmarck)
- Before Sunset (Richard Linklater)
- Up! ( Pete Docter)
- 12 Years A Slave (Steve McQueen)
- The Favourite (Yorgos Lanthimos)
- Borat (Larry Charles)
- Pan's Labyrinth (Guillermo Del Toro)
- Inception (Christopher Nolan)
- Punch-Drunk Love (Paul Thomas Anderson)
- Best in Show (Christopher Guest)
- Uncut Gems (Josh and Benny Safdie)
- Toni Erdmann (Maren Ade)
- Whiplash (Damien Chazelle)
- Kill Bill Vol. 1 (Quentin Tarantino)
- Memento (Christopher Nolan)
- Little Miss Sunshine (Dayton & Faris)
- Gone Girl (David Fincher)
- Oppenheimer (Christopher Nolan)
- Spotlight (Tom McCarthy)
- TAR (Todd Field)
- The Hurt Locker (Kathryn Bigelow)
- Under The Skin (Jonathan Glazer)
- Let The Right One In (Tomas Alfredson)
- Ocean's Eleven (Steven Soderbergh)
- Carol (Todd Haynes)
- Ratatouille (Brad Bird)
- The Florida Project (Sean Baker)
- Amour (Michael Haneke)
- O Brother, Where Art Thou (Joel & Ethan Coen)
- Everything Everywhere All At Once (The Daniels)
- Aftersun (Charlotte Wells)
- Tree of Life (Terrence Malick)
- Volver (Pedro Almodovar)
- Black Swan (Darren Aronofsky)
- The Act of Killing (Joshua Oppenheimer)
- Inside Llewyn Davis (Joel & Ethan Coen)
- Melancholia (Lars Von Trier)
- Anchorman (Adam McKay)
- Past Lives (Celine Song)
- The Fellowship of the Ring (Peter Jackson)
- The Gleaners and I (Agnes Varda)
- Interstellar (Christopher Nolan)
- Frances Ha (Noah Baumbach)
- Fish Tank (Andrea Arnold)
- Gladiator (Ridley Scott)
- Michael Clayton (Tony Gilroy)
- Minority Report (Steven Spielberg)
- The Worst Person in the World (Joachim Trier)
- Black Panther (Ryan Coogler)
- Gravity (Alfonso Cuaron)
- Grizzly Man (Werner Herzog)
- Memories of A Murder (Bong Joon-ho)
- Superbad (Greg Motolla)
Tuesday, July 08, 2025
Sisters

Sisters is a 2015 comedy film directed by Jason Moore and written by Paula Pell. The film stars Tina Fey and Amy Poehler with a supporting cast that includes a number of current and past Saturday Night Live performers plus John Cena and James Brolin.
The film tells the story of two adult sisters, Maura (Poehler) and Kate (Fey) Ellis, who are polar opposites. When their parents decide to sell their childhood home, the sisters are forced to reunite and clean out their old room. In a last ditch effort to relive their glory days, they decide to throw one final, epic house party for their former classmates.
When we watched it the first time, Sharon commented on how much she enjoyed the movie. She was not so enthusiastic this time. I don't recommend the movie.
Monday, July 07, 2025
Golf - Dick Heringer at UC Davis
California Aggie, Volume 52, Number 28, 6 May 1954
GOLF
April 23 Coach Vern Hickey’s golf team bowed to Sacramento State in a duel match by the score of 20-7.
The best score turned by the Aggies was by Howard Bennet, who turned an 81. Dave Sale shot an 83 for the second best of the day.
In the singles matches Sacramento stroked to win every one except for one in which Dick Heringer downed Gary Bonnine 2 1/2 - 1/2.
April 23 Coach Vern Hickey’s golf team bowed to Sacramento State in a duel match by the score of 20-7.
The best score turned by the Aggies was by Howard Bennet, who turned an 81. Dave Sale shot an 83 for the second best of the day.
In the singles matches Sacramento stroked to win every one except for one in which Dick Heringer downed Gary Bonnine 2 1/2 - 1/2.

Dick Heringer and Joyce Abbott at UC Davis
Sunday, July 06, 2025
Baltic Norwegian Cruise
At the Fourth of July Celebration, I had a chance to catch up with Sharon's brother Tom about his Norwegian Cruise from June 14th to the 28th. He was on the Norwegian Dawn. Unlike the Gainsleys' recent Norwegian experience, Tom was fairly upbeat about his trip.
Saturday, July 05, 2025
Sushi Adventure with Lee and Clem
Sharon and I had dinner with Lee, Clem, Morgan, Daniel and Drew at Shilla Teriyaki & Sushi Bar in Camino.
We finished the day watching Sisters. Although we had seen the movie before, Sharon saw it on a list and wanted to rewatch it...
Friday, July 04, 2025
2025 Frame Family Fourth of July
After playing golf at Ancil Hoffman, we headed to Sharon's brother Tim's house for a Frame Family 4th of July. The group totaled twenty-one, including: Sharon and I, Tom, Eric, Kevin, Leah, Lydia and Amelia, Tim and Kathy, Will and Eileen, Erin, Cormac and Mave, Cromac's mother and her husband, Brun, Kim and Velta and Jim.
Tim barbecued burgers and hot dogs for dinner. We brought devil eggs.
We finished the night with a selection of fireworks in Kathy and Tim's cul-de-sac.
When we got home, we saw the last part of the second night of the Rancho Cordova fireworks display.
Tim barbecued burgers and hot dogs for dinner. We brought devil eggs.
We finished the night with a selection of fireworks in Kathy and Tim's cul-de-sac.
When we got home, we saw the last part of the second night of the Rancho Cordova fireworks display.
At Ancil Hoffman
Friday morning, Sharon and I played nine holes at Ancil Hoffman with Jim and Debbie. Teeing off at 10:44 am, we walked the course.
After feeling good on the driving range on Thursday afternoon, I was very uneven on the range before the round. I had a rough first hole, but settled down. I feel like I am striking the ball more consistently. Although I was chippintg better after my lesson on Wednesday, I really struggled with my putting. Between the trees and the sand trap, I made a mess of the sixth hole. I ended up using one mulligan off the tee and no gallery losses. I played the whole round with one ball!
I enjoyed the round. I didn't get frustrated. I shot a liberally scored 58. Sharon said that she shot a 54.
After feeling good on the driving range on Thursday afternoon, I was very uneven on the range before the round. I had a rough first hole, but settled down. I feel like I am striking the ball more consistently. Although I was chippintg better after my lesson on Wednesday, I really struggled with my putting. Between the trees and the sand trap, I made a mess of the sixth hole. I ended up using one mulligan off the tee and no gallery losses. I played the whole round with one ball!
I enjoyed the round. I didn't get frustrated. I shot a liberally scored 58. Sharon said that she shot a 54.
Thursday, July 03, 2025
Wednesday, July 02, 2025
Golftec
I had a Golftec lesson on Wednesday morning. We spent the session working on chipping. Several times in the last two rounds, I have made two solid shots to end up in the front of green on a par four, but then made an absolute mess with my chipping.
With no lesson after mine, we ended up working for almost hour. I need to keep the back swing short, hands back to the right pocket, my head and shoulders still and a slight sway in hips.
With no lesson after mine, we ended up working for almost hour. I need to keep the back swing short, hands back to the right pocket, my head and shoulders still and a slight sway in hips.
Tuesday, July 01, 2025
Dick Heringer and Joyce Abbott at UC Davis
What is this?
Mustang of the Week Heringer Harries Humboldt |
Dick | California Aggie, Volume 52, Number 4, 8 October 1953 |
Golf | Dick | California Aggie, Volume 52, Number 28, 6 May 1954 |
Aggie of the Week | Dick | California Aggie, Volume 53, Number 5, 14 October 1954 |
A new project
For years, one of the projects that I wanted to undertake was to go to the UC Davis library and research the 1951, 1953 and 1954 Aggie football teams. I know that my dad played football for UC Davis in those years, but really don't know much esle.
In the last month, I stumbled on the fact that the California Aggie, the college newspaper, is now on-line. I have started to organize all of the articles that I can find that mention Dick Heringer. It turns out that he is mentioned in articles beyond the football team. Additionally, I have started to find a few articles that mention my mother, Joyce Abbott.
A work in progress index of this project is here.
In the last month, I stumbled on the fact that the California Aggie, the college newspaper, is now on-line. I have started to organize all of the articles that I can find that mention Dick Heringer. It turns out that he is mentioned in articles beyond the football team. Additionally, I have started to find a few articles that mention my mother, Joyce Abbott.
A work in progress index of this project is here.
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